Barbara L. Ayers -- Author

Retired Admiral William McRaven wrote a book titled   Make Your Bed: Little Things That Can Change Your Life...And Maybe the World . I have frequently touted the same philosophy. Just ask my girls. By doing this one simple thing every morning, we can say that we have accomplished one thing today. If nothing else, we can begin the day with a small accomplishment and work our way towards bigger and more important accomplishments. When we feel down or oppressed in life, doing little things can help to clear the way for realizing and accepting that we can take control of the direction of our life. This morning, for example, I was feeling a little sad and didn't feel much like doing anything except crawling back into bed and feeling beaten. The only way out of this was to get up and make the bed. Step one. Don't they say that things often begin with baby steps? Then off to the kitchen to find some sustenance, even though my appetite has dissipated with the onset of my sadness. But I...

  Are you experiencing conflicts trying to understand your parents’ or friends’ Christian beliefs? Are you having difficulty explaining your Christian beliefs to other people? Are you having trouble defining it for yourself? The goal of this book is to help provide some of the answers you seek, exactly as God intended—from his written Word. Ten essential areas basic to Christianity are presented to help you establish a foundation from which to grow and mature on your journey. While God is a mystery to all of us, the Holy Spirit has been placed inside each of us to help bridge the gap. Throughout the book, three things will become clear. First, God desires to reconcile with humankind, to have a personal relationship with every one of us. We merely need to reach out toward him in trust and to respond in faith to his call. Second, when you understand God’s free gift of grace, righteousness can become a tangible and significant attribute within your very being. You will mature an...

  When young people leave home for the first time, life can seem daunting or overwhelming. Becoming an active member of society today is fraught with so many rules and a lot of fine print. Most of our youth are faced with not having been taught so many of the skills necessary to move swiftly and successfully into the adult world.  This book presents some of the common pitfalls experienced by so many on the road to becoming independent. It is based upon listening to what parents and young adults had to say about the trials and tribulations they faced along their paths. Throughout my hundreds of conversations with adults of all ages, I discovered so many identical descriptions of problematic situations each of them had encountered. These brave people provided valuable insight into some of the knowledge and coping skills that helped them through some of those unfamiliar and often costly experiences.  Topics included in this life guide are the ones that were mentioned most fr...

As I stood in front of the pantry in my kitchen, I was debating on which type of potato to include in my dinner. I found my mind wandering back to my incredible trip to Peru in 2013. My small group of travelers were captivated by one of the lectures we had on potatoes. Of course, one of the most revered foods originates from Peru. We love potatoes! Did you know that there are over 4000 varieties of potatoes in the world? Most of them are found in the Andes. Each one has a different flavor and hence a different preferred use. Paula Dean taught me that the best potato salad is made with purple potatoes--the ones we can now find in grocery stores. Personally I think her cooking show had a lot to do with them becoming more widespread in the United States. Such an influencer she is… It is indeed interesting that there are so few varieties available in this country. We cannot help but wonder why. Have we become so engrained in our habits that there is virtually no demand for more? For differ...